I just syumbled upon a program called X-Net Stat
This is what it does~
X-NetStat is a program that displays information on your current Internet and/or network connections, much like the console netstat.exe program, but in a graphical interface. These connections are established each time you visit a web page, send an ICQ message, or check your email. They also appear when outside computers attempt to connect to your machine, authorized or not.
Each connection is displayed in the connection table, where you can see the address you are connected to, what ports (local and remote) are being used, the connection status, and protocol being used.
Depending on what edition of X-NetStat you have, you can take advantage of additional features that can aide in determining the nature of each connection, perform useful functions, etc.
Simply shows your connections and information about them. This includes open ports on your computer. Contains features which can change the behavior and appearance of how connections are displayed.
TRUST ME , THIS PROGRAM IS A MUST HAVE....
You can get it from here~
http://www.freshsw.com/xns/