what would you do?/ love help

7thkevin · Post by **7thkevin** » Sun Feb 15, 2004 1:12 am

dude this pisses me Off i was goign to go out with this girl it would have been our 2nd "date" but I called her last night to tell her I could not make it cause i was gonna go with my freind to the auto show and ask if she wanted to go but she was not home so i called her 4 times today no one home on the 5h time she is but she says no she dont want to cuase she just got back from dinner with her parentes but now 2 hours ago her sister calls and says I blew her off and now she is makin me look bad

mccoffee · Post by **mccoffee** » Sun Feb 15, 2004 1:39 am

I wouldn't sweat it too much, she and you would hopefully get over it no use of u getting worked up about actully nothing is worth getting upset and worried over it. Give it a day that's all.

Blisster · Post by **Blisster** » Sun Feb 15, 2004 1:57 am

well dude if you blew her off on Valentines day to go to an auto show with a buddy then you might just think about who you might like to date next.

cho · Post by **cho** » Sun Feb 15, 2004 2:02 am

Originally posted by Blisster
well dude if you blew her off on Valentines day to go to an auto show with a buddy then you might just think about who you might like to date next.

You totally blew her off. Judging from your story you had plans with this girl first, then you ditched them because something better came up. You invited her along but that is not the samething as a date, unless she enjoys a 3rd wheel. Seriously how did you expect her to feel and how would you feel if placed in her shoes?

EvilAngel · Post by **EvilAngel** » Sun Feb 15, 2004 2:47 am

Originally posted by Blisster
well dude if you blew her off on Valentines day to go to an auto show with a buddy then you might just think about who you might like to date next.

7thkevin · Post by **7thkevin** » Sun Feb 15, 2004 2:49 am

well hey I called and called and she siad no she didnt want to do anything but later her sister calls and yells at me sayin we should have done something

mccoffee · Post by **mccoffee** » Sun Feb 15, 2004 2:50 am

I forgot about valentines day

7thkevin · Post by **7thkevin** » Sun Feb 15, 2004 2:53 am

oh did I mention when her sister called all 3 of them were laughing ashly then one i i was to take out and her sister and her BF.

anyways she has to know not everything is gonna go her/there way....

one been on one date.. with her

cho · Post by **cho** » Sun Feb 15, 2004 2:53 am

You called after changing the plans in the first place, according to your first post. Besides woman always say no and mean yes and it can be very annoying but they just call them "tests" I hate tests...I always fail

oh did I mention when her sister called all 3 of them were laughing ashly then one i i was to take out and her sister and her BF.

huh?

7thkevin · Post by **7thkevin** » Sun Feb 15, 2004 2:55 am

Originally posted by *cho*
You called after changing the plans in the first place, according to your first post. Besides woman always say no and mean yes and it can be very annoying but they just call them "tests" I hate tests...I always fail

yay tests

cho · Post by **cho** » Sun Feb 15, 2004 2:58 am

Valentines day is BS anyways. I don't need a particular day to by a present for my gf or tell her I lover her or take her otu to dinner. I do that on a regular basis anyways, IMO.

mccoffee · Post by **mccoffee** » Sun Feb 15, 2004 3:22 am

she sounds like sucubus

i saw the lock next monster disguised as a girl scout the lock ness goes "we got oatmeal crunch, mint troffle cookies" "I go how much??" She goes about 3.50

Blisster · Post by **Blisster** » Sun Feb 15, 2004 3:58 am

Originally posted by *cho*
Valentines day is BS anyways. I don't need a particular day to by a present for my gf or tell her I lover her or take her otu to dinner. I do that on a regular basis anyways, IMO.

I agree, however, when you have been out on one date with a girl, and your second date is plannedon Valentines day, there is a certain expectation.
Like it or not, chicks (especially the young'uns) dig the "Hallmark Holidays" and place a lot of stock in them.

YARDofSTUF · Post by **YARDofSTUF** » Sun Feb 15, 2004 4:04 am

Originally posted by mccoffee
she sounds like sucubus

i saw the lock next monster disguised as a girl scout the lock ness goes "we got oatmeal crunch, mint troffle cookies" "I go how much??" She goes about 3.50

huh? WTF does the lockness monster have to do with over priced cookies?

oh and kev, sounds like u blew her off, but she also soudns like high maintenence.

mccoffee · Post by **mccoffee** » Sun Feb 15, 2004 4:06 am

it's an episode of south park it was just on basiclly a sucupus is a women that sent by the devil to drain every piece of attenion from the man and driectly focuses on the woman.

YARDofSTUF · Post by **YARDofSTUF** » Sun Feb 15, 2004 4:11 am

Originally posted by mccoffee
it's an episode of south park it was just on basiclly a sucupus is a women that sent by the devil to drain every piece of attenion from the man and driectly focuses on the woman.

still a weak connection was that liek a direct line about the monster and the girl scout? if so I understand why I stopped watching the show, poo.

mccoffee · Post by **mccoffee** » Sun Feb 15, 2004 4:12 am

That show is hillarous

Grimson · Post by **Grimson** » Sun Feb 15, 2004 4:35 am

2nd "date", forget it. It's not that big of deal.

Zilog B · Post by **Zilog B** » Sun Feb 15, 2004 10:11 am

You need a lesson in women. Pick them up AFTER valentine's day, dump them BEFORE christmas.... and hope their birthday isn't in between. Cheaper that way...

Brk · Post by **Brk** » Sun Feb 15, 2004 10:17 am

Originally posted by 7thkevin
well hey I called and called and she siad no she didnt want to do anything

You have much to learn, young grasshopper.

That means she DID want to do something.

Spicer · Post by **Spicer** » Sun Feb 15, 2004 10:18 am

What I would do, is go to the Source...

If the Young Lady means this much to you....Pick up the phone and call her....

Ask her if there is a concern/problem...Then relate the sisters involvement in the issue.

There's only one way to defeat a problem....

*Address The Problem*.........

Spice

Spicer · Post by **Spicer** » Sun Feb 15, 2004 10:19 am

Originally posted by Burke
You have much to learn, young grasshopper.

That means she DID want to do something.

No actually Burke.....That would be your way of looking at it...

Really has nothing to do with the issue....Nada!

LOL!!

Spice

7thkevin · Post by **7thkevin** » Sun Feb 15, 2004 4:38 pm

HAHA thanks guys i can alwyas get a smile from coming here

Darlin Nikki · Post by **Darlin Nikki** » Sun Feb 15, 2004 4:41 pm

Originally posted by Blisster
well dude if you blew her off on Valentines day to go to an auto show with a buddy then you might just think about who you might like to date next.

haha very true

dude , I got blown off on valentines day once by a guy so he could go play pool with his buddies

And I never ever spoke to him again

thats something..i dunno its just a real insult to a girl if you do that

Prey521 · Post by **Prey521** » Sun Feb 15, 2004 4:43 pm

I got blown a few years ago on Valentines day.

vinnie · Post by **vinnie** » Sun Feb 15, 2004 5:34 pm

You bailed ona girl that liked you on the second date... on valentines day, to go to a car show.

You don't need 'love help'. You need 'friends don't do to this friends' and 'Relationships 101' help. Not much love going down there mate

It's all about priority. She's obviously nowhere near the top of your priority list and her and any/all of her friends and relatives have every right to be pissed at you. Be grateful if she talks to you again...

I know where my partners and my priorities lie. She declined an inviation to a social gathering of friends she hasn't seen in a while so we could have our planned dinner. A little sacrifice and commitment goes a long way

Good luck though, hope it turns out well.

Spicer · Post by **Spicer** » Sun Feb 15, 2004 5:44 pm

Originally posted by John
Based on the reaction K got, I would agree with Burke.

Cool.....Thanks

Spice

cho · Post by **cho** » Sun Feb 15, 2004 10:18 pm

Originally posted by Prey521
I got blown a few years ago on Valentines day.

uh.....I don't think that is 7thKevin's problem...heh

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