First date...?

Kyle · Post by **Kyle** » Sun Jun 20, 2004 11:53 pm

Alright, so yeah I'm almost 17 and never been on a date (wanna make something of it?!?)... Anyway asking a girl that I've known for about 2months now... we met in Everquest and we talk alot and don't live very far away (about 3hours), we've talked about getting together but haven't really pursued it yet. I'm pretty sure she'll say yes, but anyway any specific do's or don't's I should know about? Dinner and a movie sound good? Any good date movies out right now?

TYIA

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Kyler1

Brent · Post by **Brent** » Mon Jun 21, 2004 12:06 am

she's prolly a dude

Kyle · Post by **Kyle** » Mon Jun 21, 2004 12:08 am

Brent wrote:she's prolly a dude

We talk on the phone everyday and have traded plenty of pictures.

Any remotely USEFUL advice?

vinnie · Post by **vinnie** » Mon Jun 21, 2004 12:11 am

I don't know. I didn't think people who met on everquest actually could meet. One would have thought the first part was mutually exclusive with the latter. Watch out for that big burny ball in the sky if you go out during the day

JawZ · Post by **JawZ** » Mon Jun 21, 2004 12:13 am

share pics...get advice.

Kyle · Post by **Kyle** » Mon Jun 21, 2004 12:14 am

UOD wrote:share pics...get advice.

How did I see that one coming...?

emilyb · Post by **emilyb** » Mon Jun 21, 2004 12:14 am

Hey Kyler,

Just be genuine, give her your undivided attention, and use you basic manners! it will all work out! Good luck! Oh, and don't forget to give her a nice compliment.....nothing corny like a typical one-liner, but if you notice something you like, tell her! ...stace

JawZ · Post by **JawZ** » Mon Jun 21, 2004 12:16 am

Kyler1 wrote:How did I see that one coming...?

Because you are not an idiot.

Kyle · Post by **Kyle** » Mon Jun 21, 2004 12:17 am

staceyb wrote:Hey Kyler,

Just be genuine, give her your undivided attention, and use you basic manners! it will all work out! Good luck! Oh, and don't forget to give her a nice compliment.....nothing corny like a typical one-liner, but if you notice something you like, tell her! ...stace

Hehe, thanks Stace.

Brent · Post by **Brent** » Mon Jun 21, 2004 12:18 am

How old is she?

Jstyr · Post by **Jstyr** » Mon Jun 21, 2004 12:18 am

Be yourself, be confident, and if all else fails club her over the head and drag her back to your apartment.

First date you wanna keep it light, no romantic movies...think comedies.

Your f00k'in set because you already have something in common (EQ)..use that!!

It doesn't hurt to get a drink or 3 in her to help loosen her up a bit. Get one in yourself as well to calm any nerves. G'luck.

EvilAngel · Post by **EvilAngel** » Mon Jun 21, 2004 12:19 am

Get some duct tape and rope and tell her you want to go on a nature walk.

Kyle · Post by **Kyle** » Mon Jun 21, 2004 12:19 am

Brent wrote:How old is she?

Not old enough for you...

15, almost 16

Brent · Post by **Brent** » Mon Jun 21, 2004 12:19 am

she's cute

compliment her, treat her nice, open the doors for her etc...

pay for everything, throw some humor out there, be a gentlemen

Jstyr · Post by **Jstyr** » Mon Jun 21, 2004 12:20 am

Jstyr wrote:Be yourself, be confident, and if all else fails club her over the head and drag her back to your apartment.

First date you wanna keep it light, no romantic movies...think comedies.

Your f00k'in set because you already have something in common (EQ)..use that!!

It doesn't hurt to get a drink or 3 in her to help loosen her up a bit. Get one in yourself as well to calm any nerves. G'luck.

hmm judging by the pics you may be a bit young to drink..in that case disreagard my last comment and just talk about EQ and stuff...you'll be golden.

JawZ · Post by **JawZ** » Mon Jun 21, 2004 12:20 am

Ok...advice time.

Don't let her mnake the decision...take this bull by the horns....step up like a man, be a gentleman, and tell her you'd like to meet her and take her to a dinner/movie. Tell her no is not an option. Be playful though. Women like a strong man.....strong in charcter and emotion. De be an ass and don't be a jerk. Be yourself. AND HAVE FUN!!!!!!!!!

Any movie with you will be a good time thus a good date movie. Be confident!!!!

Kyle · Post by **Kyle** » Mon Jun 21, 2004 12:22 am

UOD wrote:Ok...advice time.

Don't let her mnake the decision...take this bull by the horns....step up like a man, be a gentleman, and tell her you'd like to meet her and take her to a dinner/movie. Tell her no is not an option. Be playful though. Women like a strong man.....strong in charcter and emotion. De be an ass and don't be a jerk. Be yourself. AND HAVE FUN!!!!!!!!!

Any movie with you will be a good time thus a good date movie. Be confident!!!!

Thanks UOD. Will keep it in mind!

emilyb · Post by **emilyb** » Mon Jun 21, 2004 12:22 am

When he says drink, he means Dr. Pepper mister 16 year old......

Kyle · Post by **Kyle** » Mon Jun 21, 2004 12:23 am

staceyb wrote:When he says drink, he means Dr. Pepper mister 16 year old......

No worries there. She's taller than I am so nobody in there right mind is gonna let us near a bar.

JawZ · Post by **JawZ** » Mon Jun 21, 2004 12:25 am

One other observation....she got a fvcked up grill....

I LIKE THAT!!!!

She's got that Jewel cuteness...not too perfect. I hate the perfect looking woman personally. But yeah...she's a keeper if she has a personality.

Brent · Post by **Brent** » Mon Jun 21, 2004 12:25 am

UOD wrote:One other observation....she got a fvcked up grill....

I LIKE THAT!!!!

She's got that Jewel cuteness...not too perfect. I hate the perfect looking woman personally.

agreed

Kyle · Post by **Kyle** » Mon Jun 21, 2004 12:26 am

Possibly my most successful thread ever...

Here's my ugly ass btw...

Kyle · Post by **Kyle** » Mon Jun 21, 2004 12:27 am

UOD wrote:One other observation....she got a fvcked up grill....

I LIKE THAT!!!!

She's got that Jewel cuteness...not too perfect. I hate the perfect looking woman personally. But yeah...she's a keeper if she has a personality.

Hmm, that seemed like a little insult and compliment in one... I love her to death!

Brent · Post by **Brent** » Mon Jun 21, 2004 12:27 am

Kyler1 wrote:Hmm, that seemed like a little insult and compliment in one... I love her to death!

you haven't really met her in person yet, so do you really know that yet?

Kyle · Post by **Kyle** » Mon Jun 21, 2004 12:29 am

Brent wrote:you haven't really met her in person yet, so do you really know that yet?

Ya ya ya, I know, but still from what I know she's great.

Brent · Post by **Brent** » Mon Jun 21, 2004 12:32 am

Kyler1 wrote:Ya ya ya, I know, but still from what I know she's great.

good luck, let us know what happens

extreme · Post by **extreme** » Mon Jun 21, 2004 12:38 am

pretty much just be yourself. And like UOD said you be the man. Talk about what she likes to do, girls like to talk about themselves and stuff that intrests them.

MadDoctor · Post by **MadDoctor** » Mon Jun 21, 2004 12:40 am

Brent wrote:good luck, let us know what happens

Like Brent said… make her laugh. Be attentive and remember to listen to what she says. Give her your attention (look at her) when she talks and don’t dominate the conversation. Girls like it when someone pays attention to them and is sincere about that attention. After the first date… you’ll have a better idea about our advice (it sucks or wow) and then you can make your own decisions.

Good luck and have fun!!!!

EvilAngel · Post by **EvilAngel** » Mon Jun 21, 2004 12:40 am

Kyler1 wrote:Hmm, that seemed like a little insult and compliment in one... I love her to death!

Thats called a backhanded compliment

Kyle · Post by **Kyle** » Mon Jun 21, 2004 12:40 am

extreme wrote:pretty much just be yourself. And like UOD said you be the man. Talk about what she likes to do, girls like to talk about themselves and stuff that intrests them.

Problem is all she does is... PLAY EVERQUEST...

Ohhh.... *cough* Did I mention I was a little lazy in getting my learner's permit... so I don't have my license yet, and hence Mom or Dad will have to drive us...

emilyb · Post by **emilyb** » Mon Jun 21, 2004 12:46 am

that's ok....everyone should have to remember their first date being like that.

JawZ · Post by **JawZ** » Mon Jun 21, 2004 12:46 am

Kyler1 wrote:Possibly my most successful thread ever...

Here's my ugly ass btw...

Why do I get this feeling from looking at you that you will one day have a career in practicing law?

You have the innocent yet I'm gonna put yer ass behind bars for 5-10 look.

Kyle · Post by **Kyle** » Mon Jun 21, 2004 12:46 am

staceyb wrote:that's ok....everyone should have to remember their first date being like that.

To mean...

Kyle · Post by **Kyle** » Mon Jun 21, 2004 12:47 am

UOD wrote:Why do I get this feeling from looking at you that you will one day have a career in practicing law?

You have the innocent yet I'm gonna put yer ass behind bars for 5-10 look.

LOL

Actually until about 1year ago when I really got into programming... My career of choice was Law...

emilyb · Post by **emilyb** » Mon Jun 21, 2004 12:49 am

Kyler1 wrote: To mean...

With their parents driving them...

Kyle · Post by **Kyle** » Mon Jun 21, 2004 12:50 am

staceyb wrote:With their parents driving them...

Dad has already talked to her on the phone once or twice... How can one man embaress you so much in 5minutes???

Brent · Post by **Brent** » Mon Jun 21, 2004 12:54 am

Kyler1 wrote:Problem is all she does is... PLAY EVERQUEST...

damn, i need to find me a women like that!

Kyle · Post by **Kyle** » Mon Jun 21, 2004 12:55 am

Brent wrote:damn, i need to find me a women like that!

No, you need one who does nothing but surf SG and drink...

*Looks around for Meggie*

JawZ · Post by **JawZ** » Mon Jun 21, 2004 12:55 am

Kyler1 wrote: LOL

Actually until about 1year ago when I really got into programming... My career of choice was Law...

The EFF is always in need of good lawyers....

Kyle · Post by **Kyle** » Mon Jun 21, 2004 12:58 am

[quote="UOD"]The EFF is always in need of good lawyers.... ]

*looks up EFF*

RIAA vs. The People?

I like em already!