do you think its possible to know who is the love of your life

TEH WIN · Post by **TEH WIN** » Thu May 30, 2002 1:13 am

at such a young age? I am dearly in love with samantha... i dont know what id do without her... i need her, i love her

i am only 17

she is only 15

do you think its possible to know that she is "the one" at this age?

downhill · Post by **downhill** » Thu May 30, 2002 1:16 am

Ummm......depends....on...

1. If my wife if reading this, then of course! Don't be silly!

2. If my wife isn't reading this.....17? And your life expentancy is around a 120? Are you nuts? Of course not!

Actually there are couples that happens too.

tr87526 · Post by **tr87526** » Thu May 30, 2002 1:23 am

Generally No, BUT celebrated our 20th anniversary today. I was 18 and she was 16 when we met so it is possible.

minir · Post by **minir** » Thu May 30, 2002 2:04 am

Hi TEH WIN

At your age i knew who i wanted to marry & did.

However as time went on i also learned What I'd Married.

Advice

Take your time & gain lot's of experience.

regards

minir

torsten · Post by **torsten** » Thu May 30, 2002 2:16 am

It isn't possible to predict the future at any age. Circumstances and people can change. That doesn't mean you should minimize the worth and importance of your feelings now. Even loves that don't last forever can make up a part of your life that you wouldn't take anything for. As long as you don't rush into unwise commitments (or.... um.... offspring), I don't see anything wrong with taking your life and love seriously.

*says an unattached guy*

Grimson · Post by **Grimson** » Thu May 30, 2002 4:09 am

no, only time can tell you that.

TEH WIN · Post by **TEH WIN** » Thu May 30, 2002 9:42 am

Originally posted by minir
Hi TEH WIN

At your age i knew who i wanted to marry & did.

However as time went on i also learned What I'd Married.

Advice

Take your time & gain lot's of experience.

regards

minir

minir i was really hoping you responded to this. thank you.

if i ever did propose to her (god its crazy to think about at my age) it would be a long time before we got married.. we would be finnishing college before we started MAKING wedding plans.

weee

thanks again minir

SeedOfChaos · Post by **SeedOfChaos** » Thu May 30, 2002 9:59 am

Originally posted by TEH WIN
we would be finnishing college before we started MAKING wedding plans.

Now there's a good idea!!! Don't forget birth-control for at least that time frame as well...

And then, I fully agree with Torsten, however, I also second that "Says an unattached guy" *L*.

I don't think you can say that she's the "love of your life", because you don't know what life holds in store for you. So I'd say just go with it as long as it works out, maybe it'll work out for a loooong time, possibly life. But there's no way to know that now.

Just my 2c,
Ronald

(oh, and disregarding my signature would also be a wise decision in your case

)

cobra25 · Post by **cobra25** » Thu May 30, 2002 10:06 am

hmmm... my girlfriend is 19 and I'm 24..errrr 23... wait a sec... born in 1978 it is 2002 now birthday in October....

Okay let's try that again my gf is 19 and I'm 23 when we met she was 16 and of course I was 20

we are still together but I have been reminding her that in a few months she won't be a Teen anymore so she won't be interesting...

Anyway I also believe I have found the person I want to spend the rest of my life with. But only time will tell if it really so.

We can only hope, but people can change over time and well the whole being in love thing is about that feeling that you can't live without that other person.....

Have fun while you can!!

MadDoctor · Post by **MadDoctor** » Thu May 30, 2002 10:41 am

Falling in love is really just that: falling, out of control, toward that one person who is meant to be with you and you alone. The reality is that being and staying in love takes continual work and patience. Couples who have healthy relationships find ways of working together through problems and troubled times.

Allow time to “season” your relationship. Only then will you know if you’ve found your true love.

Silver · Post by **Silver** » Thu May 30, 2002 11:27 am

Originally posted by minir
However as time went on i also learned What I'd Married.

This got a hearty chuckle from me minir

Another note: I would just see how it goes, no one can really see the future, so just see how the cards play out.

terrancelam · Post by **terrancelam** » Thu May 30, 2002 11:36 am

I know how you feel. You love her with all your heart and would readily do anything for her. Just remember to make sure that those feelings are returned bud before you go and do something you might regret.

blacklab · Post by **blacklab** » Thu May 30, 2002 2:25 pm

TEH WIN

do you think its possible to know who is the love of your life

It is definitely possible if you give it the test.

This requires paying attention to all the things about your loved one that you do not like. Pay no attention to what you like, they will take care of themselves. Trouble will show up in things you don't like about the other, not the things you like. How do you feel if they cut you off before you finish the sentence, or does it bother you that they never seam to have a thought of there own, maybe you don't like the fact they squeeze the toothpaste in the middle? It's the little things that will add up to bring a relationship down.

For the final test virgins need not apply. I have always believed no man or woman can make a rational decision about a life long companion, or anything else for that matter, until their sex urges have been satisfied. Lets face it, how can you make a proper decision when all you can think about is what you are going to do when you get them into bed. Start of with a romantic night, make everything perfect. Then after you are completely satisfied and sex is the last thing on your mind, sit back and look at your lover. Now is the time to make the decision. Do you really want to spend the rest of your life with this person?

I have used these rules all my life and have never been disappointed by my decision. Many never got beyond the first stage and from those that did I have had many wonderful relationships

TEH WIN · Post by **TEH WIN** » Thu May 30, 2002 2:58 pm

Originally posted by terrancelam
Just remember to make sure that those feelings are returned bud

more than i give, which i never thought was possible

YARDofSTUF · Post by **YARDofSTUF** » Thu May 30, 2002 4:16 pm

yes jessica alba is mine

FaerieGlitter · Post by **FaerieGlitter** » Thu May 30, 2002 5:54 pm

Originally posted by MadDoctor
Falling in love is really just that: falling, out of control, toward that one person who is meant to be with you and you alone. The reality is that being and staying in love takes continual work and patience. Couples who have healthy relationships find ways of working together through problems and troubled times.

Allow time to “season” your relationship. Only then will you know if you’ve found your true love.

i completely agree...

i think deep down you know if they are the one or not...but when you two are arguing you will sometimes have your doubts...so that is why you "try" to work through the hard times and just let time tell you.

TEH WIN · Post by **TEH WIN** » Thu May 30, 2002 6:15 pm

her and i get along like brother and sister, (with privlidges)

like i wouldnt be afraid to take her out to mcdonalds or taco bell one night.. because i know that she wouldnt expect anything more all the time. i dont have the need to impress her or be somebody that im not, which ive never felt with anybody else.

maybe the fact that she helped me fix my comptuer also makes me love her even more...

we were sitting on teh couch in my room, and the couch was right in front of a desk with some comptuer stuff on them. and i was explaining to her what the parts did and she actually gave me her undevided attention and listened to what i was saying, even if it didnt make much sense...

ive never had a girl care about my life so much... its a wonderful thing to have her

TEH WIN · Post by **TEH WIN** » Thu May 30, 2002 10:31 pm

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