Tenative plan

Annalysa · Post by **Annalysa** » Tue Oct 01, 2002 2:43 pm

Well I cant post on speedguide at work well because its information technology god I love websense.

Next week I am getting a new car one thats not exciting but can get me back and forth to Canada and on my long weekends I will drive up there once he gets settled in. Eventually before or I after I finish school I will move to somewhere close to the border where he is staying so were not to far away. I know roundeye your saying no way. I love him, I am sure he loves me we have been dating for four months he drives here 2 and half hours everyother weekend. He is kind, sweet smart and everything I have ever wanted in a guy and there is no way I am going to let a 1000 miles and an different country stand between us. He wants to be together too. As for marriage I only want to get married once, and I dont want to do so he or i can stay somewhere If i do ever marry him it will because we are meant to be- I think we are. but only time is going to tell. I thank you all for the information. There appears to be many jobs he can do as he is a programmer with out joining the army and theres always a chance he can still get a job in Detriot or something along the border where they hire canadian citizens living in canada. Regardless We are not giving up. I am gonna be a mess for awhile guys so if i get bitchy please forgive me. This may not seem like a big deal to some, but I feel like a big part of my life and happiness has moved away.
Thanks guys..

Joint Chiefs of Staff · Tue Oct 01, 2002 5:04 pm

Thanks for sharing Anna. Hang in there! It WILL work itself all out. I'll promise you that much. I've been in the very same boat that your sitting in now.

Annalysa · Post by **Annalysa** » Tue Oct 01, 2002 8:42 pm

I am looking at Buffulo State University.. Looks groovey.. Not to far from Ontario..

onetrueday · Post by **onetrueday** » Wed Oct 02, 2002 1:58 am

buff state isnt a bad school...

very easy to get in as well.

Annalysa · Post by **Annalysa** » Wed Oct 02, 2002 2:40 am

Cool thanks for the info.. Just hope there jobs around there too-- couldnt look at work damn websense.

onetrueday · Post by **onetrueday** » Wed Oct 02, 2002 2:51 am

Buffalo... Jobs?

http://www.buffalohelpwanted.com

not a really great scene...

blebs · Post by **blebs** » Wed Oct 02, 2002 12:35 pm

I don't know that Canada is such a good choice Annalysa. After all, look what it's done to Minir!

Inverse · Post by **Inverse** » Wed Oct 02, 2002 2:01 pm

I lost a girl over 50 miles difference.. the pain isn't worth it.. best of luck to you..

Annalysa · Post by **Annalysa** » Wed Oct 02, 2002 5:41 pm

Gonna see what happens... Hell he may fall in love with someone else and break it off with me. Who knows. I am not in very good spirits.

Joint Chiefs of Staff · Wed Oct 02, 2002 7:53 pm

Originally posted by Annalysa
Gonna see what happens... Hell he may fall in love with someone else and break it off with me. Who knows. I am not in very good spirits.

Don't fret young grasshopper. ALLLLL will work out for the best. Love wins, it always does.

Annalysa · Post by **Annalysa** » Wed Oct 02, 2002 8:06 pm

I sure dont feel that way. Hell I just found out my cousin is moving to buffalo Monday, so I would have a place to stay if I moved there. I just dont know if I am ever going to here from him again. Thats my biggest fear.

Joint Chiefs of Staff · Wed Oct 02, 2002 8:10 pm

Originally posted by Annalysa
I sure don't feel that way. Hell I just found out my cousin is moving to buffalo Monday, so I would have a place to stay if I moved there. I just don't know if I am ever going to here from him again. Thats my biggest fear.

Buffalo that's still a nice little haul to Toronto. 2 almost 3 hours if memory serves me. Traffic sucks too.

I'm sure you two are talking about this. He should be reassuring you of his place in the relationship.

Docsta · Post by **Docsta** » Wed Oct 02, 2002 8:11 pm

good luck anna

Annalysa · Post by **Annalysa** » Wed Oct 02, 2002 8:11 pm

he hasnt talked to me since he left, he suppose to try and call friday. has no internet access. He says he doesnt know whats going to happen but he wants to be with me. I think it all sucks

Joint Chiefs of Staff · Wed Oct 02, 2002 8:14 pm

Originally posted by Annalysa
he hasnt talked to me since he left, he suppose to try and call friday. has no internet access. He says he doesnt know whats going to happen but he wants to be with me. I think it all sucks

Yes life sucks really bad sometimes. Why wait till Friday. Send him a phone card.

Annalysa · Post by **Annalysa** » Wed Oct 02, 2002 10:27 pm

Dont know where he is -- all i know is hes going to toronto that city i cant spell..

SRF01 · Post by **SRF01** » Thu Oct 03, 2002 2:41 am

If he's a good programmer then he should find work relatively quickly. But like everywhere else the job market is not as great as it was a few years ago.

On another note seeing as you don't know exactly where he is...
He didn't borrow a lot of money from you did he?
Not trying to be mean just looking out for you.

Annalysa · Post by **Annalysa** » Thu Oct 03, 2002 2:48 am

Nope none.. I think hes a geniune person. Only time will tell.

SRF01 · Post by **SRF01** » Thu Oct 03, 2002 2:57 am

Ok good to hear it. Just looking out for you.

I guess you'll just have to wait until Friday and hope for the best. Does he have family or friends up here. Anyone that he can stay with for a few weeks while he's job hunting?

I have a friend who has just moved his gf up here from Cali. There are quite a bit of immigration issues to work out before she will be a citizen or even be qualified to work here. But where there's a will there's a way... So don't lose hope. It just might take some time to get things straightened out.

Annalysa · Post by **Annalysa** » Thu Oct 03, 2002 2:59 am

He went up with his mom, they have friends up there since thats where he is from. I am trying to be optimistic but since it all actually sank in. I guess whatever happens happens. I am not gonna be able to change anything if its bad. I really love him though thats what sucks. Will see

SRF01 · Post by **SRF01** » Thu Oct 03, 2002 3:06 am

Well I say hope for the best. The glass might be half full for you, you never know.
Let me know if I can help. I won't be back at work until next week but I'll ask about the high blood pressure thing for you.

Annalysa · Post by **Annalysa** » Thu Oct 03, 2002 3:08 am

Thanks

terrancelam · Post by **terrancelam** » Thu Oct 03, 2002 3:35 am

if you in Toronto and you need some help, pm me and I'll give you my cell number. Take care of yourself Anna, hope good things will come of your relationship.

Annalysa · Post by **Annalysa** » Thu Oct 03, 2002 8:22 am

Thank you Too....Terrancelam

Annalysa · Post by **Annalysa** » Thu Oct 03, 2002 4:59 pm

I am thinking maybe good things are gonna happen.. We will see.. everything think happy thoughts for Lorri..