Sorry to hear that, I thought it was a joke! Just remember, no matter what you two decide, make it easy on the kids, they do come first. I wont begin to tell you how to go about solving this as you already know how. You gave me advice all of my life, you'll be fine. Think of Rachel and the words will fall into place.
Nothing to hide on mine..but I keep my computers locked out passworded pretty good and change it monthly lol I have friends that come by to use em from time to time. I wouldn't worry about it.... she will be back if its just something on the computer no biggy right?
Sorry Wee...not an easy thing to work though that is for sure. A little jealousy is imo a compliment to any relationship..when there is an extreme amount however...and I have seen it fester in both females and males, is generally a sign of strong insecurity on the part of the one displaying such, either real or imaginary...depending on the background info, etc. To feed such a fetish, or any other fear is absolutely cruel but I commend you for taking steps to correct that. It just adds fuel to the fire, and makes trust that much more difficult to achieve on a comfortable basis.
This however does not give her the right to violate your private space...no matter what the reason. That in itself is very very scary. Some professional help I believe is needed here in order to work though whatever issues are causing the pain. Best of luck to you both!!
I wanted to thank everyone for the kind words, she is home now and we will work on things. I feel alot better and it made me think more about life and what I truely have. I also appreciate the lack of rude comments or "bleh" type deals, thanks
can we say "bleh" now since it was just a false alarm?
SG Pimp Name : *Treacherous P. Shizzle*
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The fight for our way of life needs to be fought on our own soil, for our own people and because of our own interests.
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Sure now that the crisis is over you finally float by offering condolences. What happened? The Pole at the strip joint where you dance need to be re-finished? Took you long enough to get back.
SG Pimp Name : *Treacherous P. Shizzle*
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The fight for our way of life needs to be fought on our own soil, for our own people and because of our own interests.
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Hey, If Me & My Buddies Were Making Billions of Dollars I'd Tell Ya What Ya Wanted To Hear Too!
thepieman wrote:Sure now that the crisis is over you finally float by offering condolences. What happened? The Pole at the strip joint where you dance need to be re-finished? Took you long enough to get back.
Sorry Wee...not an easy thing to work though that is for sure. A little jealousy is imo a compliment to any relationship..when there is an extreme amount however...and I have seen it fester in both females and males, is generally a sign of strong insecurity on the part of the one displaying such, either real or imaginary...depending on the background info, etc. To feed such a fetish, or any other fear is absolutely cruel but I commend you for taking steps to correct that. It just adds fuel to the fire, and makes trust that much more difficult to achieve on a comfortable basis.
