It's over.
- koldchillah
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- the_mp3_refuge
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Hey buddy...
So I may not post often, or in the past year or two at all. But I still come to the boards to see how the folks are doing. Many of the people I knew have come and gone, but some are still here. I wanted to take a moment to say as a whole, past, present and future we are here for you JCOS! No matter where your life leads you I think I can speak for us all in that you can always lean back on your friends here, and we'll support you. Your e-mail was very thoughtful and filled with the love you share for the girl of your dreams, and I commend you in not writing a hateful e-mail as so many devorces end. My parents just split up so I have an understanding as to how you may feel, so if you ever need anything, even though we haven't been that close, I'm a mouse click away. Take care of yourself buddy. You're here for a reason. A close friend of mine once said. To check and see if your mission here on Earth is finished, first see if you're alive... If you are, it isn't.
Best Regards,
Bob
Best Regards,
Bob
"To give anything less than your best is to sacrifice the Gift."--Steve Prefontaine
Hey Buddy,
Everybody here has said everything that i would of said, so i will not divulge into that anymore for you.
You are a great man, and as all know it here you was dedicated to your family. I have been in your shoes, and know the pain you are feeling.
Now to a brighter side, when do you have vacation time. Lets hit some white sandy beaches together and chase all the pretty ladies around driving them crazy with our wit. I am serious as ever about this.
We have helped make a free country over here and we both need to go on a vacation and celebrate it.
Just think about the ole sit and spin we could get
Will have ventrillo back up in a few if you want to get on there and chat.
Everybody here has said everything that i would of said, so i will not divulge into that anymore for you.
You are a great man, and as all know it here you was dedicated to your family. I have been in your shoes, and know the pain you are feeling.
Now to a brighter side, when do you have vacation time. Lets hit some white sandy beaches together and chase all the pretty ladies around driving them crazy with our wit. I am serious as ever about this.
We have helped make a free country over here and we both need to go on a vacation and celebrate it.
Just think about the ole sit and spin we could get
Will have ventrillo back up in a few if you want to get on there and chat.
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There are so many words I would offer on this very subject, but they would bring no solace to a man in mourning.
Patrick, there will never be another one like your Jenny. She climbed in, and held your heart like no one else could. In this living death, the Hell that is a divorce, try to remember the better times. Remember that you ARE capable of having them again as you move on. Her living ghost has given you this permission. Please do so, when the sharpness of the agony diminishes.
david
Patrick, there will never be another one like your Jenny. She climbed in, and held your heart like no one else could. In this living death, the Hell that is a divorce, try to remember the better times. Remember that you ARE capable of having them again as you move on. Her living ghost has given you this permission. Please do so, when the sharpness of the agony diminishes.
david
I want to learn more and more to see as beautiful what is necessary in things; then I shall be one of those who make things beautiful. Amor fati: let that be my love henceforth! I do not want to wage war against what is ugly. I do not want to accuse; I do not even want to accuse those who accuse. Looking away shall be my only negation. And all in all and on the whole: some day I wish to be only a Yes-sayer.
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I can't even tell you how sorry I am for you bro. I wish you (and Jenny) all the best. Your handling it better than I would. I know this has to be extreemly tough for you both and being separated like this makes that much tougher on a marriage. Your a good man bro, being single or divorced won't change that. Anything you need, just let me know and I'll see what I can do. That is a sincere statement, not BS. Anything hommie, if I can get it, it's yours. Hang in there