Sid wrote:If she is truely your soul mate then you should fight to get her back at any cost!!!! Screw the money, it should never be about money, ever! If you love her then quit your job and move back and fight for her damn it! Show her your love or get the hell out of her life.
Don't know the entire situation here but very true words!
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I was going to post a link to that thread, but the SG search results for "bullsh|t" were too numerous
sometimes you have to think outside the box to get inside the box .
Patrick sorry to hear about that man. I hope u can either work it out or move forward. Either way I know you will come out ok.
Pie
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The fight for our way of life needs to be fought on our own soil, for our own people and because of our own interests.
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Hey, If Me & My Buddies Were Making Billions of Dollars I'd Tell Ya What Ya Wanted To Hear Too!
Sorry to hear this man, I've been down this road..not much more than 1 week ago as a matter of fact. We struggle every day to try and make things work.
Take solace in the fact you have done your level best to make it work. Try not to put too much blame on yourself Patrick as it takes more than one to reach this stage.
Having work than entails travel is never easy, but a Man has to do what he feels right in order to support his loved ones.
Your a nice Guy Patrick and you have tons of Friends here for support when needed.
Umm this is not the outcome that I had prayed for. I often wondered how it was going, but didn't want to pry into your personal life. Get enough of that from everything else! Well Sir Patrick, you did what you felt must be done, so I guess pack it in and get ready for even more excitement when your done over it in the ****hole. Take Evan up on that offer. Hope to see you whole once again soon buddy.
That was one of the most beautiful e-mails I have ever read. Hold your head pround...that you honored both your dignity and respect for her done in the utmost highest , respectful of responses. I salute you Sir! You have a great many supporters here...and we won't be near as easy to dump! Hang in there! and Gods Speed to the healing process...above call...stay SAFE in your times of such stress!
You've always got us here to lean on if you need it...
------ “The most beautiful thing we can experience in life is the mysterious. It is the source of all true art and science. He to whom this emotion is a stranger, who can no longer pause to wonder and stand rapt in awe, is as good as dead: for his eyes are closed.” - Albert Einstein
UOD wrote:I hope it clarifies a few things for you Patrick....I believe that you have done your part. 3 calls and you think you failed???
NO.
Time to move on and make a real life for yourself now.
I know plenty of women that would have your baby.
Brembo said he knows plenty of men that would carry Patricks child.
Man patrick, I dunno what to say but if you're ever in Tn you know where I am. Sorry to hear bout this crap, tough stuff for sure. We shall drink some Michelobs sometime.
JCOS, my heart goes out to you, I know that losing the love of your life can be painful, BUT it takes 2 to make a relationship, if one or the other falters or has doubts, then it is better to get it over with earlier then later...Hang in there my friend, better days are coming..
chevyman..
When they call the roll in the Senate, the Senators do not know whether to answer "Present" or "Not guilty."
– Theodore Roosevelt
Separation can only do harm to a relationship, Its ineviatable I think.
I don't think there is any loss of love for either of you, but years and years of separation take their tole.
As much as you feel your right for working and living at a distance, she would think your wrong.
Hopefully you can get on with your life, and who knows, if you ever decide to give up the road you and her may be able to get back together.
UOD wrote:I hope it clarifies a few things for you Patrick....I believe that you have done your part. 3 calls and you think you failed???
NO.
Time to move on and make a real life for yourself now.
I know plenty of women that would have your baby.
hell, i wanna have his babies...
uh
not really,
i just want to ride him like a harley on a bad piece o road
Every normal man must be tempted at times, to spit on his hands, hoist the black flag, and begin slitting throats. I often wonder if the voices in my head ever get frustrated because I'm just too damn lazy to climb that clock tower.
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Joint Chiefs of Staff wrote: I've tried to be the man you wanted me to be but in the end I have failed. This failure will haunt me to the end of my existence.
By whose standards do you call yourself a failure? You haven't failed anyone.
This will haunt you for about a year, and not to the end of your existance, and then some classy chick is going to come along and make you wonder wtf was wrong with your wife?
You know I'm there for ya JCOS. I just went through this with another friend of mine not long ago and he said that the cure was "warm, dangling boobies". Now, I didn't say that, he did. And he's the voice of experience.
Sarahnn wrote:By whose standards do you call yourself a failure? You haven't failed anyone.
This will haunt you for about a year, and not to the end of your existance, and then some classy chick is going to come along and make you wonder wtf was wrong with your wife?
You know I'm there for ya JCOS. I just went through this with another friend of mine not long ago and he said that the cure was "warm, dangling boobies". Now, I didn't say that, he did. And he's the voice of experience.
Love,
Sarahnn
Sarrahnn, is right JCOS..Also take one day at a time..you will get thru this...
You are a good guy, and sometimes the good guys lose once in awhile..but they always come back in the end..
Take care my friend..
chevyman...
When they call the roll in the Senate, the Senators do not know whether to answer "Present" or "Not guilty."
– Theodore Roosevelt
Sarahnn wrote:By whose standards do you call yourself a failure? You haven't failed anyone.
This will haunt you for about a year, and not to the end of your existance, and then some classy chick is going to come along and make you wonder wtf was wrong with your wife?
You know I'm there for ya JCOS. I just went through this with another friend of mine not long ago and he said that the cure was "warm, dangling boobies". Now, I didn't say that, he did. And he's the voice of experience.
Damn Patrick, im so sorry to hear about this Like you said, we are all here for you if you need any support and I mean any support. Things will get better for you, but it will take time.
Joint Chiefs of Staff wrote:We talked for 4 hours today. Just hung up a few minutes ago a matter of fact. There was no fighting, no bickering. Just past reminiscing, lots of tears, lots of emotions and nothing but respect for one another between the two of us. The final chapter in your lives together has ended but our friendship will forever be intact.
Patrick
At least you've got that going for you...a lot of marriages end in such a way where the two people hate each other and can't stand even thinking about each other...it took my parents over 20 years to get to the point where they could sit down with each other and have an enjoyable conversation after their divorce.
As cliché as it may sound, things will get better. And what better support group than what you've got here at Speedguide?
------ “The most beautiful thing we can experience in life is the mysterious. It is the source of all true art and science. He to whom this emotion is a stranger, who can no longer pause to wonder and stand rapt in awe, is as good as dead: for his eyes are closed.” - Albert Einstein
Joint Chiefs of Staff wrote:I've read each and every reply and despite past posting habits I will not reply to each and every one. (oh lookie I made a funny).
I want to thank each and everyone for their support. To be honest I'm going to need it. I love all of you here. Frankly, my wife never understood my need to be here but I did because you are my family. Thank you again.
It's been a rough couple of months that really started back in August. It's just been hell on me and for my wife ever since. She's a damn good woman and a saint to put up with me for as long as she has. I just couldn't give her what she craved and needed anymore after over 10 years. She is and will remain the most important part of my life.
We talked for 4 hours today. Just hung up a few minutes ago a matter of fact. There was no fighting, no bickering. Just past reminiscing, lots of tears, lots of emotions and nothing but respect for one another between the two of us. The final chapter in your lives together has ended but our friendship will forever be intact.
Patrick
Wow, I'm sorry. You are one loyal dude. There's a woman out there somewhere who's gonna just worship that about you some day.
Sorry to hear about this, Patricio. I really don't know what to add to all that's been posted, so I'll just say that I'll keep you in my prayers and if you need anything, let me know.
Hey Patrick are they not shipping any alcohol over there for the soldiers? I would think you could get a drink, seeing as how you definately deserve one. I'd take you out and get you blitzed but your a bit far at the moment Maybe when you get back eh?
wee96 wrote:Hey Patrick are they not shipping any alcohol over there for the soldiers? I would think you could get a drink, seeing as how you definately deserve one. I'd take you out and get you blitzed but your a bit far at the moment Maybe when you get back eh?
No booze. The Army follows the laws of Kuwait to the letter.
Ive only been here at speedguide for a fraction of the time that you have, but I have tome to respect ya alot. Your a great guy and I dont see you deserving this, Miss. Cleo would have never seen it comin. Just know were here for ya dude and well be prayin for ya,
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) Feel your pain though, past couple of months here been quite the thin ice act lately too.
