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I got some sad news today
Posted: Mon Aug 25, 2008 9:11 pm
by Sid
Remember last year when I was having all the problems with my wife. I got married to her on my birthday 7/27/07, She split to go back to her drug addict ex-boyfriend two weeks later.
Man, I was so much in love with her, I put up with more crap then most men would of.
Well I just got word today that she died on our 1 year anniversary. And for those of you that remember, it was also my marriage to mew wonderful wife.
I should be glad that she will never cause anyone any more pain, but I am not. A part of me is lost as well, as she was the one that rocked my world(musically). She basically drug me back into playing. Encouraged me when others laughed and walked a way. Besides the guitar stuff, she left me with many lessons learned in life. Mostly hard and harsh lessons, but some were good.
She died of an enlarged heart. Toxicology will take another 2 months according to her mother. I sure she was tweaking because she was on the road. She died in a rest stop in Utah, her supposed boyfriend sleeping in the truck. Ambulance her to the hospital where she was pronounced DOA. She died alone, He wasn't there with her. She died around strangers.
She is in a better place now. God has her.
Posted: Mon Aug 25, 2008 9:19 pm
by TinyTim
Sorry to hear that man -
Posted: Mon Aug 25, 2008 9:30 pm
by koldchillah
ugh.. what a bummer man. My condolences.
Don't stop playin' music though.. who cares what people say.. just keep playing.. it's good for the soul and it will help you heal.
It's my biggest regret in life so far.. letting my musical abilities fade away.
Posted: Mon Aug 25, 2008 10:24 pm
by RoundEye
Sid I’m quite sorry to hear this, I remember there was quite a bit of turmoil when the relationship started.
I wish you and the family all the best in healing.

Posted: Mon Aug 25, 2008 10:37 pm
by Humboldt
Sorry to hear that Sid.
Remember the good, learn from the bad.
Posted: Mon Aug 25, 2008 11:31 pm
by Sid
Well I'm gonna do a tribute song.
Kockin on heavens doors by G&R.
I'm sad
Posted: Mon Aug 25, 2008 11:42 pm
by Dan
Sid wrote:Remember last year when I was having all the problems with my wife. I got married to her on my birthday 7/27/07, She split to go back to her drug addict ex-boyfriend two weeks later.
Man, I was so much in love with her, I put up with more crap then most men would of.
Well I just got word today that she died on our 1 year anniversary. And for those of you that remember, it was also my marriage to mew wonderful wife.
I should be glad that she will never cause anyone any more pain, but I am not. A part of me is lost as well, as she was the one that rocked my world(musically). She basically drug me back into playing. Encouraged me when others laughed and walked a way. Besides the guitar stuff, she left me with many lessons learned in life. Mostly hard and harsh lessons, but some were good.
She died of an enlarged heart. Toxicology will take another 2 months according to her mother. I sure she was tweaking because she was on the road. She died in a rest stop in Utah, her supposed boyfriend sleeping in the truck. Ambulance her to the hospital where she was pronounced DOA. She died alone, He wasn't there with her. She died around strangers.
She is in a better place now. God has her.
wow ! what a story !I hope all the best for you .

Posted: Tue Aug 26, 2008 1:11 am
by Joint Chiefs of Staff
Sid thanks for sharing in your personal life and I am sorry for your loss. I guess nothing we can say here can take the pain of loss away but know this, you have friends that care.
Posted: Tue Aug 26, 2008 1:27 am
by Sid
Thanks guys.
When you are treated like crap you figure its gonna be real easy to good, I'm glad they're dead. What a piece of crap that person was.
Truth is, it's not all that easy to really say that and mean it.
I will always be grateful to her for making me play my guitars again. It has been a passion that I gave up years ago for another woman.
I am in good hands with a great lady. She has been my soul mate since I've meet her.
Posted: Tue Aug 26, 2008 6:29 am
by YeOldeStonecat
Good Morning Sid...
Sorry to hear this news. Regardless of how "sour" your relationship went with her, no matter how much understandable anger you have towards her now, she was a part of your life, and the loss still hurts...even after all this time.
Sorry for your loss. And let your new love be there for you.
Posted: Tue Aug 26, 2008 7:37 am
by David
Sid,
I well remember the sad tale.
No words from me Sid. If you need to talk, let me know.
david
Posted: Tue Aug 26, 2008 8:23 am
by Far-N-Wide
Wow... sad news...
Prayers sent.
Posted: Tue Aug 26, 2008 9:19 am
by Ken
Sorry Sid. They say that all things happen for a reason... Just remember the good times and seek the positive...
Ken
Posted: Tue Aug 26, 2008 10:09 am
by ctodd
Sorry to hear the news. Keep rocking the guitar.
Posted: Tue Aug 26, 2008 10:24 am
by downhill
Wow, Sid. I'm truly sorry to hear this sad news.
My deepest condolences to you and her family my friend.
Posted: Tue Aug 26, 2008 2:28 pm
by Jamie_R
prayers for you Sid ....
keeping playing is the best thing you can do - it will help lift your soul ...
Posted: Tue Aug 26, 2008 7:48 pm
by Shinobi
I'm sorry to hear that Sid..
You cared for this woman.. and your feelings, no matter
what she did to you, still run deep.
Don't stop playing music man.. Play music it a great, on so many levels..
Shinobi
Posted: Wed Aug 27, 2008 11:48 am
by Easto
Sid,
I'm so sorry to hear this. I really don't know what to say.
Mike
Posted: Wed Aug 27, 2008 8:30 pm
by Sid
Easto wrote:Sid,
I'm so sorry to hear this. I really don't know what to say.
Mike
Damn Mike, I gotta shoot you some mail one of these days.
Posted: Wed Aug 27, 2008 8:34 pm
by Sid
OK, folks, I hope it's not true that stuff runs in three's. I just got word that my mom has cancer of the liver. I guess the doc's are saying it came from somewhere else. They just haven't nailed it down.
As far as Jackie the ex goes. Think well of her as god has her and she is in good hands.
But, I sure could use those prayers for my mom.

Posted: Wed Aug 27, 2008 8:44 pm
by CableDude
Prayers sent.
Posted: Wed Aug 27, 2008 8:48 pm
by Debbie
Sid wrote:OK, folks, I hope it's not true that stuff runs in three's. I just got word that my mom has cancer of the liver. I guess the doc's are saying it came from somewhere else. They just haven't nailed it down.
As far as Jackie the ex goes. Think well of her as god has her and she is in good hands.
But, I sure could use those prayers for my mom.

Prayers on the way Sid
Posted: Wed Aug 27, 2008 11:11 pm
by OSULLY
Prayers sent.
Posted: Thu Aug 28, 2008 3:06 am
by RoscoPColtrane
Posted: Thu Aug 28, 2008 3:32 am
by De Plano
Man, once again sorry to hear about that. Wishing your mom the best
Posted: Thu Aug 28, 2008 8:43 am
by downhill
Wow Sid. Prayers on the way.
I'm sorry to hear this bad news.

Posted: Thu Aug 28, 2008 9:04 am
by tao_jones
I lost my mom and dad to cancer. Prayers and thoughts on the way.
Posted: Thu Aug 28, 2008 9:32 am
by MissTynker2
Sid wrote:OK, folks, I hope it's not true that stuff runs in three's. I just got word that my mom has cancer of the liver. I guess the doc's are saying it came from somewhere else. They just haven't nailed it down.
As far as Jackie the ex goes. Think well of her as god has her and she is in good hands.
But, I sure could use those prayers for my mom.


I am so sorry. Prayers in flight for your Mom.
Damned dreaded disease
Fold on people!
Posted: Thu Aug 28, 2008 7:21 pm
by knightmare
sorry to hear...

Prayers for your Mom....
Posted: Thu Aug 28, 2008 7:36 pm
by RoundEye
Posted: Fri Aug 29, 2008 9:45 pm
by Sid
Crap, I just got news my wifes, sister, husband has colon cancer.
On a positive note, I have a shot at getting the opening IT job where I work. Cake stuff, basic networking and win 2k and xp boxs'.