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Come home, her computers gone and her clothes are gone. Shes convinced I cheated or cheat and I seriously havent, not much I can do now.

I'm sorry man. That sucks

Wtf!!

whoa! are u ****ing joking?????
That sucks Dave. Damn I hope you guys work things out. Thats horrible.

Pie

No, this time im really not joking unfortunately. Im an arse on here normally but this is one of the serious posts.

Wow, sorry to hear that wee. It's been a rough few weeks for relationships around here.

sorry to hear wee

Dude sorry to hear this Wee.

Holy crap I will pray for ya buddy

wee96 wrote:No, this time im really not joking unfortunately. Im an arse on here normally but this is one of the serious posts.

That sucks. Really sorry to hear that. Thats really drastic. She left without even so much of a warning?



Pie

thepieman wrote:That sucks. Really sorry to hear that. Thats really drastic. She left without even so much of a warning?



Pie

Well, kinda blew up at me today because she saw some stuff, and her temper usually makes her just take off.

Zilog B wrote:Wow, sorry to hear that wee. It's been a rough few weeks for relationships around here.

No kidding, I'm about to ditch my PC with the divorce/seperation rate around here. Sorry man. I'd lose it if my wife left with my children.

wee96 wrote:Well, kinda blew up at me today because she saw some stuff, and her temper usually makes her just take off.

Hmm 'stuff' ?

wee96 wrote:Well, kinda blew up at me today because she saw some stuff, and her temper usually makes her just take off.

oh so she has done this before then. Give her time to cool off. When you say stuff...did she see you doing things that would bring infidelity into the picture like chatting with women or listing yourself on a dating site or something?
I hadda leave my sons mom because of her constant accusations...she even tried to accuse me of having something going on with someone from SG! She thought its like a chat site. Some women are just too much with their imaginations. In all honesty when they do things like that it makes me wonder if they are just projecting and they are actually playing out their own deals on their partners.

Pie

Yea stuff, nothing like phone numbers or notes or something, just chat log that I created on purpose because I had a feeling she'd spy and sure enough she did.

thepieman wrote:oh so she has done this before then. Give her time to cool off. When you say stuff...did she see you doing things that would bring infidelity into the picture like chatting with women or listing yourself on a dating site or something?
I hadda leave my sons mom because of her constant accusations...she even tried to accuse me of having something going on with someone from SG! She thought its like a chat site. Some women are just too much with their imaginations. In all honesty when they do things like that it makes me wonder if they are just projecting and they are actually playing out their own deals on their partners.

Pie

My wife wondered about this place also .... I came out and showed her what was goin' on..... invited her to snoop around. I got nothing to hide...she has no issues ....again this doesn't mean jack but.....eh

I made the mistake of being a bit too harsh in my stuff i did, i do take some responsibility. I really havent cheated though, at all.

wee96 wrote:Yea stuff, nothing like phone numbers or notes or something, just chat log that I created on purpose because I had a feeling she'd spy and sure enough she did.

Dude...never inject jealousy into a relationship. If there was nothing there u should have left it like that. If u wanted to catch her going through your system u should have hooked up a webcam or something.

Yea, I take responsibility on that part and have told her this.

wee96 wrote:Yea, I take responsibility on that part and have told her this.

Well I'm sure she will be back but that really sucks that she goes through your computer like that too. Thats not right either. I have never done that to anyone even when I was left alone with their computers working on them. I don't like it being done to me so I wouldnt do it to someone else.


Pie

Correct me if I'm wrong but from what I'm reading you made a fake chatlog that she found on your computer snooping?

Zilog B wrote:Correct me if I'm wrong but from what I'm reading you made a fake chatlog that she found on your computer snooping?

Yes, basically.

wee96 wrote:Come home, her computers gone and her clothes are gone. Shes convinced I cheated or cheat and I seriously havent, not much I can do now.

sorry to hear that wee...i know what you are going through ... i say screw'em and you and i go on a cruise i have reserved for two to get away from them...and find us some tropical horny honies

Zilog B wrote:Correct me if I'm wrong but from what I'm reading you made a fake chatlog that she found on your computer snooping?

i did that once because she was so convinced i was cheating and she kept looking for things so i gave her something to find ... bad idea...

wee96 wrote:Come home, her computers gone and her clothes are gone. Shes convinced I cheated or cheat and I seriously havent, not much I can do now.

You must be crushed.

You'll be in touch with her eventually, and you two will be talking it out further. So, don't let her disappearance rule your feelings for now.
Patience.

GSXR 750 wrote: i say screw'em and you and i go on a cruise i have reserved for two to get away from them...and find us some tropical horny honies

Yeah, 'cause that's the best idea evar!

http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0285462/plotsummary

Burke wrote:Yeah, 'cause that's the best idea evar!

http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0285462/plotsummary

but this is not a gay cruise

Burke wrote:Yeah, 'cause that's the best idea evar!

http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0285462/plotsummary

Explains a few things...

Wee, I hate this for you, but seriously...if your wife finds a chat log on your computer, "I faked it" is not the best excuse in the world. If this relationship is something you want to mend, I would counsel you to play straight, don't dig deeper. You married your wife, therefore she is probably smart enough to understand that you could have caught her snooping in a much less self-detremental(sp?) and much less time consuming way!

****

she took the computer?

holy **** wee, I have no words to express the pain I know you feel. Sorry bud.

What a bummer Wee.

These type of threads get posted all too often around here.

I hope you can talk to her and work things out. Good luck man.

jeez Wee ... I hope everything will be ok for yall

I believe you Wee. You don't strike me as the cheater type. Mischievous, but not dishonest or a cheater.

She will be back......

I think that she will be back too. The issue of her thinking that you are cheating on her has to be addressed. Don't sweep that under the rug. It must be dealt with. Look into some counseling for both of you to see why she feels that way.

And above all, no more making up things like chats to hurt her because you are angry about her snooping.

This is a situation that requires some time and healing.

I think most of you guys know i run an internet cafe here and I see lots of crazy stuff going on here from time to time.

A couple of months ago I had this woman come in here asking if she could access her home email from my store and I asked her what she used and she said Yahoo, so I told her that its accessible from anywhere...she had a big smile on her face, and asked if I could also allow her to print, so I also said of course to that as well. So she gets a timecode and sits down and all I kept hearing was the humming of the printer going off. She was inside muttering stuff to herself and occasionally gigiling. I was like WTF is she up to. She kept coming back to me and getting the prints and she was almost laughing. She was also making copies of each printout. At this point I was extremely curious now, but still I didn't say anything, because I always respect my customers privacy. Finally I guess she could had to share her little secret. She had installed one of those Keystroke capturing softwares on her husband the Doctor's computer and was capturing his passwords, his chat logs and his emails...wow..She had the goods on him! He was flying up to canada routinely to visit his mistress and saying he was going for business...I LOL'd...this guy was mincemeat and she was copying everything for the Divorce lawyer. Doctor Anonymous was about to lose 50% of everything he owned

thepieman wrote:I think most of you guys know i run an internet cafe here and I see lots of crazy stuff going on here from time to time.
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I wasn't sure what you did , but i didn't want to be nosy, etc..

Pretty interesting Pie

Back when I folded for a short time, I would see your ID, and thought maybe you ran a bakery or something..

She took her computer, I still have all mine she is respectful even when angry and doesnt damage or take my stuff.

The mistrust and paranoia was going to eventually do this I could feel it but didnt want to admit it...im not sure where things are going to go from this point.

wee96 wrote:She took her computer, I still have all mine she is respectful even when angry and doesnt damage or take my stuff.

The mistrust and paranoia was going to eventually do this I could feel it but didnt want to admit it...im not sure where things are going to go from this point.

no contact with her yet ?

Izzo wrote:no contact with her yet ?

None.