you might not be configured to use AIM 4.7.
I never have that happen to me. But make sure you have the updated version or tell them to update to the latest version of AIM. thats the only thing I can think of.. but other than that they could be pulling your chain. And politely saying your pictures suck and as far as it not agreeing with original.. well thats out of my league here.
Uninstall AIM and reinstall the lates version or get trillian. I hear it works well with AIM ICQ YAHOO MSN but I couldn't get it to work well unless I had them installed on my computer I don't like to use ICQ and noone uses msn messenger.. Yahoo crashes my system. AIM works. and ODIGO works too. RAZIUS won't connect to server. and CRYPTIM is sort of complicated. If I could find answers to all my problems well that would be cool.
Powerfulsquid, I believe that you might be sending out fragmented files or those people are using AOL IM and have compressed images enabled in thier internet options.
Good luck.
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