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Posted: **Wed Jan 04, 2006 5:27 pm**

knightmare wrote:I believe you Wee. You don't strike me as the cheater type. Mischievous, but not dishonest or a cheater.

She will be back......

me too

Posted: **Wed Jan 04, 2006 5:30 pm**

Hi wee

Quite a shock wee

Try to stay sane & sober through all this and hopefully things will work themselves out for you both. Kids need a Dad & a Mom.

Good luck my Friend

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minir

Posted: **Wed Jan 04, 2006 5:30 pm**

Thanks for the kind words.

Posted: **Wed Jan 04, 2006 6:38 pm**

Sorry to hear you're going through this Wee.

Posted: **Wed Jan 04, 2006 7:03 pm**

I'm sorry.

Posted: **Wed Jan 04, 2006 7:53 pm**

sorry to hear that

did she take the kids too?

Posted: **Wed Jan 04, 2006 8:06 pm**

Dave, DAMN!

Sorry to hear that, I thought it was a joke! Just remember, no matter what you two decide, make it easy on the kids, they do come first. I wont begin to tell you how to go about solving this as you already know how. You gave me advice all of my life, you'll be fine. Think of Rachel and the words will fall into place.

Posted: **Wed Jan 04, 2006 8:09 pm**

Nothing to hide on mine..but I keep my computers locked out passworded pretty good and change it monthly lol I have friends that come by to use em from time to time. I wouldn't worry about it.... she will be back if its just something on the computer no biggy right?

Posted: **Wed Jan 04, 2006 8:31 pm**

Hi Wee,

So sorry to hear that man, I'll say a prayer for you and your family.

Just give it time and don't give up on your family.

Take care.

Posted: **Wed Jan 04, 2006 10:06 pm**

my condolences wee....

has this paranoia been going on for a while????

I have heard of women getting super paranoid twards(sp on pain meds for eyes) there husbands because they where the ones cheating...

Posted: **Thu Jan 05, 2006 12:23 am**

wee96 wrote:No, this time im really not joking unfortunately.this is one of the serious posts.

sorry to hear for you

Posted: **Thu Jan 05, 2006 9:21 am**

Sorry Wee...not an easy thing to work though that is for sure. A little jealousy is imo a compliment to any relationship..when there is an extreme amount however...and I have seen it fester in both females and males, is generally a sign of strong insecurity on the part of the one displaying such, either real or imaginary...depending on the background info, etc. To feed such a fetish, or any other fear is absolutely cruel but I commend you for taking steps to correct that. It just adds fuel to the fire, and makes trust that much more difficult to achieve on a comfortable basis.

This however does not give her the right to violate your private space...no matter what the reason. That in itself is very very scary. Some professional help I believe is needed here in order to work though whatever issues are causing the pain. Best of luck to you both!!

Posted: **Thu Jan 05, 2006 6:53 pm**

I wanted to thank everyone for the kind words, she is home now and we will work on things. I feel alot better and it made me think more about life and what I truely have. I also appreciate the lack of rude comments or "bleh" type deals, thanks

Posted: **Thu Jan 05, 2006 6:57 pm**

I hope it works out for you.

Posted: **Thu Jan 05, 2006 7:24 pm**

Good luck with it all. Gods Speed to you both brother.

Posted: **Fri Jan 06, 2006 12:40 am**

Hang in there Dave. Hope you can both reach agreement on working things through.

John

Posted: **Fri Jan 06, 2006 12:46 am**

Go for it weeeeeeeeeeeee
Make her happy and dont forget about some crazy sado maso sex lol

Posted: **Fri Jan 06, 2006 8:47 am**

Hope you both can work it out! Her coming back home is obviously a good start on things.

Posted: **Fri Jan 06, 2006 9:40 am**

Is the computer ok?

Posted: **Fri Jan 06, 2006 9:56 am**

can we say "bleh" now since it was just a false alarm?

Posted: **Fri Jan 06, 2006 12:05 pm**

Wee, Again Sorry to hear this bro,

Pm me if you would like to talk further..

Posted: **Fri Jan 06, 2006 1:19 pm**

Spammy wrote:Wee, Again Sorry to hear this bro,

Pm me if you would like to talk further..

Sure now that the crisis is over you finally float by offering condolences. What happened? The Pole at the strip joint where you dance need to be re-finished? Took you long enough to get back.

Posted: **Fri Jan 06, 2006 1:26 pm**

thepieman wrote:Sure now that the crisis is over you finally float by offering condolences. What happened? The Pole at the strip joint where you dance need to be re-finished? Took you long enough to get back.

LOL damn terrorist I tell ya.

Posted: **Fri Jan 06, 2006 1:31 pm**

so any breakthroughs yet ... has she reealized that you are the man and it would be a mistake to leave ... like hopefully mine will ...

Posted: **Mon Jan 09, 2006 2:36 am**

Zilog B wrote:Is the computer ok?

Posted: **Mon Jan 09, 2006 6:29 am**

Shes back, computers are ok (laptop has a crack in it though).

Posted: **Mon Jan 09, 2006 8:30 am**

wee96 wrote:Shes back, computers are ok (laptop has a crack in it though).

I hope things workout for you

Posted: **Mon Jan 09, 2006 9:38 am**

Dan wrote:I hope things workout for you

Best of luck to you.

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